Love & Zero Attachment

What is love and what is attachment??

Let’s take an example, a 5 years old baby is having class work or home work and to get the good

marks, parents are always help that baby. So is that love or attachment.

Confused, ultimate result of this scenario is baby will have two effects.

I) Baby unknowingly depends on parents and he/ she knows that some one is there in the

    back who always pools his/her up. So END OF INDEPENDENCE.

II) From the understanding or knowledge level is ZERO.

     

Any good vibrant of that scenario, I don’t think but one of the good thing is working in the

psychology I.e. ATTACHMENT.

So, is there any love? Yes, now you think your baby can write the same thing by his/her own, then as

a parent we all be happy and parents can understand the capacity of that baby. It will never happen

at a glance. It’s results of long pain taken by baby and their parents. Now, when baby is getting pain

i.e. called struggle or brainstorm to get the success. When parents are getting pain i.e. called love for

their baby.

As a result that baby will become independent and self motivated as well as solutions oriented and

now just think if this vibrant in the baby psychology then the future will be always experimenting

and solutions oriented.

Then what is attachment and what creates a different an attachment from the love. If we have pets

in our house after some times we have a attachment with that pet.

One of the famous words “I miss you” , what does it’s actually means is that a love or attachment. If

we stay with some one or something means living or a no living element we are attached with that.

Then what is love??

Love will never be less or more by leaving attached elements. Mother’s love will never less or more if

her children is far from them. If children is having worse time parents always cry not to do show off

but it’s real and when they will succeed, parents will happy and speech less. I believe this called a

actual love.

Now a question is coming in our mind is love is only belongs to parents and children.

Answer is not really.

Love is unconditional, it’s emotional. Love will never measure. In a very deep level we neither feel

the love physically nor by express. It’s deep with in which makes you blank in your mind. A closeness

which makes us happy.

Conclusion: Love is unconditional feelings where as attachment is a physical feeling. So if we are

attached with some one we will scared to loose that and that is the attachment not love. In love

physical existence doesn’t matter. If your love is close to you that’s good but if not it will make us

happy or sad based on what your love is feeling.