How to come out when the situation is not your control

Stop blaming after keeping yourself in the puzzle 

Observe and break the code instead of puzzle your mind.

In life there are lots of time when you are in big puzzle and the puzzle creat due to some decisions you have taken once back. Now it’s really complicated and hard to express and important thing is that even you feel shy or not comfortable to to explain to your closest one or if you express, it’s hard to understand for them as they don’t come across. 

Puzzle that you are not able to come out, puzzle to make you get stuck in a small hole, puzzle to make your brain stop, puzzle to make you feel bad or irritating with yourself and all that could go for some decisions which results, a harmful decisions. 

This is the time when you are supposed to challenge yourself. Most of that scenario you may know the way to come out but due to mind is full of puzzles your brain will not work accordingly. Now this is the time when you should stop yourself. Pause your mind and try to understand all the elements associated with the puzzles. What was the basic requirements of all that elements in your life, how much values added by those elements. 

In an actual, elements are added “0” to in your life. It’s just a flow which force you to take decision and now you are confused about your decision as well as results. Now your mind is back in the stage when instead of going into the roots of the situation, you are crawling on the situation and make yourself stressful. 

Solution: Calm down, understand the roots, find out the elements and their values and most importantly don’t waste your time by blaming yourself. Adding all of these don’t forget to add all the dots of your life. You will see the result of the changes in your mind and slowly you can come out of that puzzle.

Conclusion: Believe in yourself. If you create a puzzle, only you have the way to come out by understanding the values of the elements which keeps you in the puzzle and understanding the roots and most importantly how you managed your mind. 

How to get my Passion !

Patience + Emotion = Passion 

Patience is the capacity to control our thoughts which is coming in our mind for a particular moment.

Sit calmly and observe your mind so that we can understand what is coming in our mind. Observe and understand that clearly and work on that one by one.

We have unlimited thoughts in a particular moment, lots of talk in our mind, stop that when you get one thought. Say yourself  "LET ME SEE WHAT IS COMING IN MY MIND". You will see the mind is totally blank and it is in the thought less state and start working on which you get before. Try to take out the essence of one thought and when it’s touch your emotions, you crack the code. 

Emotion is the state of your mind which make you happy, sad, cool and angry based on your situation. 

When you are not filling drains and you will feel energetic all the time while working on that particular thought, most add on this, you will feel happy and energetic even when you are not working on that. In that moment you will find your passion and if you don’t find that emotions while doing something which is coming in your mind, that is not your passion. Leave immediately and start doing the same exercise. 

One thing we should keep it in our mind that happy state will always come in, we need to have patience to observe that. For some it takes few seconds or few days but it may takes few months or years. 

Problem is we don’t have that patience to observe such a beautiful thing because of external happiness. Do observe yourself with lots of patience, because when you get such thing no one can stop you.

Conclusion:

Patience will give us the power of observation in our mind and when you add your emotions of happiness into that observation or thoughts, you will find your passion. 

How to take a Decision

We all are taking decisions everyday every time. No matter the situations are. Small decisions are easy to take but some decisions are really hard to take. 

Understanding the situation and questioning will always help you to step ahead towards the correct decisions. 

Don’t go with the flow or never process your mind based on the others advice. Others will always advise based on there own experience or the environment they grown up. 

We can take suggestions or we can get the understanding of that situation based on the expertise. However questioning your mind and heart with complete honesty, always helps you to take decisions and most importantly you should not lie to yourself.

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So ask yourself are you confused. 

Most people are taking wrong decision or can’t take any decision because of creating confusion in mind. Now your job is to go into the depth of that situation and understand the best possible scenario as well as worse possible scenario of that confusion, in terms of all the criteria.

We need to understand both the possible results good or bad for both the situations. 

Take a deep breath, calm your mind and honestly ask yourself, are you ready for the worse case situation in all the the possible way. 

If you fail are you able to stand up, are you ready to walk on a difficult path that you may not think about, are you able manage that worse situation. If yes then that will be your decision with lots of energy, if not leave right away. 

While taking a decisions don’t let your desire force your mind. It’s always forcing you to take wrong decisions, even you want to buy a car, let your understanding capability take place between mind and heart to get the budget. 

Conclusion:  

To take a decision you need to follow below 

1. Calm your mind
2. Understand the depth of all the circumstances 
3. Be honest with yourself 
4. Are you ready for the worse scenario ??
5. Is your decision will create difference from others. 
6. Don’t allow your feelings or desire to dominate your decisions.