Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts

Sunday, October 10, 2021

How to take a Decision

We all are taking decisions everyday every time. No matter the situations are. Small decisions are easy to take but some decisions are really hard to take. 


Understanding the situation and questioning will always help you to step ahead towards the correct decisions. 


Don’t go with the flow or never process your mind based on the others advice. Others will always advise based on there own experience or the environment they grown up. 


We can take suggestions or we can get the understanding of that situation based on the expertise. However questioning your mind and heart with complete honesty, always helps you to take decisions and most importantly you should not lie to yourself.


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So ask yourself are you confused. 


Most people are taking wrong decision or can’t take any decision because of creating confusion in mind. Now your job is to go into the depth of that situation and understand the best possible scenario as well as worse possible scenario of that confusion, in terms of all the criteria.


We need to understand both the possible results good or bad for both the situations. 


Take a deep breath, calm your mind and honestly ask yourself, are you ready for the worse case situation in all the the possible way. 


If you fail are you able to stand up, are you ready to walk on a difficult path that you may not think about, are you able manage that worse situation. If yes then that will be your decision with lots of energy, if not leave right away. 


While taking a decisions don’t let your desire force your mind. It’s always forcing you to take wrong decisions, even you want to buy a car, let your understanding capability take place between mind and heart to get the budget. 


Conclusion:  


To take a decision you need to follow below 

  1. Calm your mind
  2. Understand the depth of all the circumstances 
  3. Be honest with yourself 
  4. Are you ready for the worse scenario ??
  5. Is your decision will create difference from others. 
  6. Don’t allow your feelings or desire to dominate your decisions.

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