Friday, October 1, 2021

How to add value on your TIME.....

Stop wasting your time, time is money 


It’s a very common word. Heard this words a lot.


Today when I get up in the morning, I don’t know why this words are coming in my mind. Then I have taken a deep breath and write down in a paper and keep on looking at it.


As an analyst I am trying to do some Why Why analysis on that particular issue.


After adding some past experience and mistakes as well as with support of proper questioning, I am coming up with some hard truth.


  1. When we are wasting our time in any social media, time is automatically flow. We don’t even realised how much time has past. 
  2. In the same way when we are doings some thing which is very interesting for the particular persons, he /she doesn’t know how the time has passed away.
  3. Third hard core truth is wasting huge time to save a small tiny amount. 


Sit some where, take a deep breath and relax, invest your little more time and tell yourself which one you are in. 


Then I keep on thinking and what came in my mind is , I stop now and use my time in which I want to use, no wasting time anymore. 


That’s what we used to do after getting motivated from some social media videos or words written by some one. RIGHT??


Now I again ask myself, is it working?? Is it staying for long?? Or it ends when you are in some small destructive environments. 

For an example: you are getting good amount of salary but still you are not happy. You want to do something and you are working on that but you know when the salary hits in your account, you are completely destructed and you enjoy for few days and again fall down. 


Solution : instead of leaving and move to some important work, it will be really good to polish your weakness, add some value on it and add your huge time to market your weakness…..which will create wealth one day. 


Confused, let me make it simple 

For hard truth 

  1. Make your social media platform with some strong personality, they always write articles every day.
  2. Don’t look at your friends and family, better to move on beyond that. 
  3. Create new, don't worry about the results and compete with yourself. 
  4. Have patience.


Conclusion: 


If you want to add value on your TIME, use your habit as weapon and shoot your creative thoughts as a bullet. You will see the changes. 

Saturday, September 18, 2021

Love & Zero Attachment

What is love and what is attachment??

Let’s take an example, a 5 years old baby is having class work or home work and to get the good

marks, parents are always help that baby. So is that love or attachment.

Confused, ultimate result of this scenario is baby will have two effects.

I) Baby unknowingly depends on parents and he/ she knows that some one is there in the

    back who always pools his/her up. So END OF INDEPENDENCE.

II) From the understanding or knowledge level is ZERO.

     

Any good vibrant of that scenario, I don’t think but one of the good thing is working in the

psychology I.e. ATTACHMENT.


So, is there any love? Yes, now you think your baby can write the same thing by his/her own, then as

a parent we all be happy and parents can understand the capacity of that baby. It will never happen

at a glance. It’s results of long pain taken by baby and their parents. Now, when baby is getting pain

i.e. called struggle or brainstorm to get the success. When parents are getting pain i.e. called love for

their baby.


As a result that baby will become independent and self motivated as well as solutions oriented and

now just think if this vibrant in the baby psychology then the future will be always experimenting

and solutions oriented.


Then what is attachment and what creates a different an attachment from the love. If we have pets

in our house after some times we have a attachment with that pet.


One of the famous words “I miss you” , what does it’s actually means is that a love or attachment. If

we stay with some one or something means living or a no living element we are attached with that.

Then what is love??


Love will never be less or more by leaving attached elements. Mother’s love will never less or more if

her children is far from them. If children is having worse time parents always cry not to do show off

but it’s real and when they will succeed, parents will happy and speech less. I believe this called a

actual love.


Now a question is coming in our mind is love is only belongs to parents and children.

Answer is not really.


Love is unconditional, it’s emotional. Love will never measure. In a very deep level we neither feel

the love physically nor by express. It’s deep with in which makes you blank in your mind. A closeness

which makes us happy.


Conclusion: Love is unconditional feelings where as attachment is a physical feeling. So if we are

attached with some one we will scared to loose that and that is the attachment not love. In love

physical existence doesn’t matter. If your love is close to you that’s good but if not it will make us

happy or sad based on what your love is feeling.

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