How to be happy

Happiness is always depend on your own understanding of the real truth of humanity. 

You cannot be happy all the time. it’s good to be sad some times. Whether you want to be happy or sad depends upon how honest you are with yourself. Are you really happy with this situation or what you have done so far?? You can’t lie to yourself. 

We are always lying to our own souls. We live life to do show off. No priority, No importance, No requirements but we do something which maintain our social appearance.

Market yourself is good but show off will never make you happy. It may take longer time to understand but it’s truth and you can’t keep truth behind. It will come up one day. Truth of life, truth of love, truth of humanity, truth of soul. 

You are doing jobs, getting a huge amount of salary, new car, new house but ask yourself, are you really happy. Are you really not tired at the end of the day ? If yes then you are not happy. When you are doing something which makes you really happy, You will be never tired to do that. 

We all keep our happiness behind the material world. Do you really think, that gives you happiness. Take a deep breath and think. These all are external happiness which is temporary. It will be normal like others after few days. 

When we buy any such things which makes you happy, that happiness will never stay long. After a few days that things become as normal as other things in your life.

Conclusion: 

Creation beyond our thoughts make us happy. Something which will make us energetic all the time. We are ready to do anytime beyond our energy level, that make us happy. 

Happy or sad dose not matter when we understand the real truth of soul, body and the world we belong. If we started looking as it is then nothing matters from emotional level or external thought level.

How to take a Decision

We all are taking decisions everyday every time. No matter the situations are. Small decisions are easy to take but some decisions are really hard to take. 

Understanding the situation and questioning will always help you to step ahead towards the correct decisions. 

Don’t go with the flow or never process your mind based on the others advice. Others will always advise based on there own experience or the environment they grown up. 

We can take suggestions or we can get the understanding of that situation based on the expertise. However questioning your mind and heart with complete honesty, always helps you to take decisions and most importantly you should not lie to yourself.

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So ask yourself are you confused. 

Most people are taking wrong decision or can’t take any decision because of creating confusion in mind. Now your job is to go into the depth of that situation and understand the best possible scenario as well as worse possible scenario of that confusion, in terms of all the criteria.

We need to understand both the possible results good or bad for both the situations. 

Take a deep breath, calm your mind and honestly ask yourself, are you ready for the worse case situation in all the the possible way. 

If you fail are you able to stand up, are you ready to walk on a difficult path that you may not think about, are you able manage that worse situation. If yes then that will be your decision with lots of energy, if not leave right away. 

While taking a decisions don’t let your desire force your mind. It’s always forcing you to take wrong decisions, even you want to buy a car, let your understanding capability take place between mind and heart to get the budget. 

Conclusion:  

To take a decision you need to follow below 

1. Calm your mind
2. Understand the depth of all the circumstances 
3. Be honest with yourself 
4. Are you ready for the worse scenario ??
5. Is your decision will create difference from others. 
6. Don’t allow your feelings or desire to dominate your decisions.